President Obama and Paul Ryan are two of the smartest, most admirable and most genial men in Washington. It is sad, although not strange, that in today’s Washington they have never had a serious private conversation. The president has never invited Ryan over even for lunch.About a month ago, Newsweek ran an article about the loss of the party culture in Washington where folks of differing political persuasions got together. Decades ago, most legislators and their families lived in DC and did things together. It was the days of martinis and smoke-filled rooms. It was in this environment that things got done because you trusted the other guy. You might not agree with him (and most likely back then it was a "him"), but you thought he was a good guy because you spent time with him.
As a result, both men are misinformed about the other, and both have developed a cold contempt for the other’s position. Obama believes Ryan wants to take America back to what he sees as the savage capitalism of the 1920s (or even the 1760s). Ryan believes Obama wants to turn America into a declining European welfare state.
If they met, would they resolve their differences? No, but they would understand them better.
But Washington isn't like that anymore and neither is the rest of the country. We are increasingly growing apart, and that seperateness breeds distrust. If this were 1965, Paul Ryan and Barack Obama would sit down at the White House, smoke some cigars, have a few drinks and maybe at the end hammer out a deal on the budget. Neither side would get all of what it wanted, but they would learn how to find some kind of consensus, a Grand Bargain.
But since this is 2011 and not 1965, we have Ryan and Obama looking at the other with distrust and a bit of contempt. The same goes for me and the commenter. So we design legislation and ideas that in Brooks' words, pretend that the other political party doesn't exist.
If I can add another thing wrong with Ryan budget is that it was written as if Democrats didn't exist. But the thing is, they do and they won't stand for a plan that they think will hurt the poor and let the rich get off. Conversely, the Obama plan pretends Republicans don't exist. But Republicans do exist and they won't stand for a plan that they don't see tackling entitlements.
In a democracy we have to realize that there are others that don't share our views. The trick of a democratic society is how to reasonably work out a deal between competing interests. In the end, this means compromise. That can't happen if you don't trust the other side.
The plans released by Ryan and Obama could have been starting points to reach a workable budget deal. But what both ideas will become are platforms for the 2012 election season, platforms to beat up the other side.
I want to see some kind of compromise reached. But I also would like to see Democrats and Republicans just meet for lunch sometime, away from the cameras. Maybe if they shared a meal, things could get done.